THE PRESENCE PLAYBOOK

LIBERATE YOURSELF FROM SELF-DOUBTS

By accessing your personal power, you can achieve "presence", the state in which you stop worrying about the impression you're making on others and instead adjust the impression you’ve been making on yourself.


Spoiler Alert: It’s possible to believe you’re worthy, capable, and ready to have the life you want.


CONFIDENCE IS NOT ‘FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT’.

REAL CONFIDENCE = INNER CHANGE


Yes! You can develop a strong inner confidence that will not waiver under constant self-doubts. Yes! You can be in charge of your life because you recognise the value you bring to your clients and your business with your unique blend of skills, experience and personality. You don’t need to become a different person to feel confident, quite the opposite.

As a business owner, you know that collaboration and sharing are effective methods to scale up and grow, however when it comes to your personal business… you may not want to share it with a group. I get you. Allow me to help you in a 1:1 setting.

No fluff, vague affirmations or law of attraction. While I’m open to spirituality, I believe in the law of cause and effect. I use cognitive psychology-based techniques and insights gained from years of coaching and empowering women like you who were held back by their doubts, inner criticism and worries about other people’s opinions. Your inner mentor has been playing second chair to your inner critic for too long and we’re going to let it take center stage. You can say goodbye to your impostor syndrome!

But right now things might look like this:

  • You feel like a fraud even when you’re successful

  • You receive a negative comment and you obsess over it for hours, if not days

  • You wonder when people will ‘find out’ that you’re not that good after all

  • You don’t like selling or promoting yourself as you feel pushy or sleazy

  • You don’t say what you truly think because you worry about other people’s opinion of you

  • You want to be independent but also to be liked… and it’s not working out

  • You can’t establish healthy boundaries and end up doing too many things for others… and regret it

We can change all this. You can become bulletproof to all that noise stopping you from shining bright.

Right now things are confusing but only because you don’t know what’s going on inside your brain. You are constantly bombarded by external pressures, by society, family, partners offering, most of the time with the best intentions, their opinions and suggestions. It’s no wonder that you can’t distinguish anymore what you truly want from what others want for you and from you.

You may also carry with you learned behaviours and mindset that are not serving you anymore, a weight you keep with you because you don’t even see it anymore. You got used to it and you need someone else to shine a light on it and tell you how to let it go.

During our work together, you will learn to…

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Maximise Your Strengths

You have special skills and unique abilities. We will identify and leverage them so that you can build a success’ strategy based on your zone of genius. This approach will allow you to showcase your potential in a way that feels natural to you and gives you the BEST results.


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Overcome The Impostor Syndrome

Your doubts and lack of self-confidence have been holding you back. You will learn easy and proven techniques to enhance your positive self-beliefs and banish the mind monkeys that make you doubt your capabilities and talent. These are skills that will accompany you for life and will allow you to play big in all areas, with a particular focus on your professional life.

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Promote Yourself Authentically

Your self-worth plays a huge part in how you present yourself to the world. You are your own brand and you need to promote your work and results to gain the respect and recognition necessary to level up your business. The clarity you’ll gain about your strengths and the ability to overcome self-doubt will allow you to step into the spotlight with no hesitation and to communicate authentically with confidence.


“I have had several face to face sessions with Nicoletta and was so impressed and inspired by them. She is a great mixture of down to earth and easy to meet and .. highly inspiring. She helped me find the confidence I needed to start moving towards making the changes I was wanting and needing to make in my working life and she is still there beside me cheering me on. Thank you Nicoletta!” Helen B.



You will:

  • Find and own your boss voice and leadership stle without compromising yourself or your values

  • Manage the fears and doubts that come when you pivot or uplevel

  • Take the mental chaos out of your daily routine

  • Prevent burnout before it starts and treat it before it seriously affects you and your business

  • Build healthy boundaries that keep your energy at max and your value intact

  • Create the unique, tailor-made big picture vision for your business that can only come when you reach inner confidence in your strengths

How it works:

  • We beging with a video call (on Zoom) where I learn where you’ve been, where you’re at, where it hurts or feels stuck, and where you want to go next.

  • We start to create a vision for the person you want to be and the life and business you want to have.

  • We keep talking in real time on Voxer, a voice messaging app. As you go about your day, you ask your questions and share your insight, and then you get on with building your dream business

  • We have weekly calls for six weeks so you gain momentum, support and accountability

  • Monday-Friday, 10am to 6pm, CET, I answer and work with you through your thoughts and questions.

  • You know exactly what to do to increase and develop your confidence.

Prefer voice-only, no schedule support?

No problem, we can also move, after the first meeting, to Voxer/messages only ongoing support.

Need a Confidence Booster?

Don’t need to go that deep?

Just need my take on a pressing issue or a confidence booster after a setback?

I’ve got you there too. Book yourself in to get going right away.

We know it - more confidence = more opportunities

And those chances will not find you… if you’re not putting yourself out there consistently and promoting your services in the best possible way.

You deserve to be seen as the star player you already are. To feel confident that you’re getting in front of the people who need you the most.

And all you need is consistent leverage of your strengths to build your success in 2019.

You are enough. Your skills are enough. By working together, we’ll create a strategy to broadcast your efforts in a way that feels good to you.

No more doubts or excuses. Just hands-on guidance to help you go from hidden team player to leader of your life.

The key to develop your assertiveness and confidence is to do it from a place of safety, abundance and kindness.

I don’t believe in bullying ourselves as that doesn’t build lasting changes. Only a safe environment fosters lasting learning.


“Approachable and determined, Nico is a coach and leader you’ll never fail to enjoy interacting with if you like getting things done.” Doug F.




Develop the confidence you need

to build the success you want.

Leveraging your strengths, you will advocate confidently for yourself and reach your vision of success.


“Nicoletta’s 1:1 programme has been inspiring and she has been so generous with her time and provided a warm friendly environment where I felt safe to express myself. I decided to change career and Nico helped me to prepare for it. I’m feeling awesome now!” Claire M.


“I have had several face to face sessions with Nicoletta and was so impressed and inspired by them. She is a great mixture of down to earth and easy to meet and .. highly inspiring. She helped me find the confidence I needed to start moving towards making the changes I was wanting and needing to make in my working life and she is still there beside me cheering me on. Thank you Nicoletta!” Helen B.


“Nico is a fantastic coach, she has helpful ideas and thinks outside the box on any issue you bring to her.” Gina B.



You have a choice…

You can keep doing the same things you have done so far, and keep getting the same results you’ve been getting (if you’re still reading this page, I’m guessing those results haven’t been great)...

Or, you can draw a line in the sand, put your foot down, and say ENOUGH already with doubting yourself.

You’re ready to own your talents in a HUGE way to level up your confidence in the next 6 months and beyond.

So what will it be?

You haven’t come this far…just to come this far.